Some serious business here...

So the day has ended today & Dusshera has passed off joyously. Mixed feeling - with the 10 day festival coming to a sudden end & this being the last day, the mood is set with a heavy heart. People have celebrated the victory of good over bad, the defeat of the evil & the destruction of the ill. Greetings & Happy Dusshera messages flew through SMSs to relatives & friends & well wishers expressed their sincere well being & prosperityto fellow beings. Sweets are ubiquitous everywhere & best of recipies are processed in the kitchen in every house. But the day marked a sharp demark from a noisy, lighting, crowded navratri night, to a silent, sober but a contending Dusshera evening. People quietly agreed to mark the end by celebrating the Bisarjan with the best of the arrangements & efforts. The action is done & now the wait for the next season has kicked off. With this, even I realize my 2 weeks long break has now approached ending & I am left with 2 days to calm my heart. Its always a hard feeling to experience when you leave home & family members, but you cant do anything expect for the fact that you have to take in the right spirit. Oh yes, I didnt mention about an important topic during my stay here- that of getting me married. I realized now that my mom was in full feldged form & in set mood to do her part & get me a life partner. Without even disclosing me, she along with my dad did much & got some photographs of marriagable girls from our caste & thier biodata. My dad even showed the list of phone numbers whom he had contacted for marriage purpose. This made me wonder if I was ready now to think of marriage. I had given a thought to it no doubt, but I didnt give a serious thought to it frankly. Given the seriousness with which my parents have taken the case of my marriage, the alert message has ticked my mind & now I am forced to think of the issue more deeply & plan for near future. We all discussed, my parents, me, my eld sis, my bro, sis in law. Everyone opined their thoughts& expressed their interests & my intersts. & Interestingly my opinions were provoked with theirs. Infact everyone agreed to the fact that the mind of the person who is about to get married, becomes a lethargic stock. I felt so & this convinced me more. More I thought & more I realized the same thing. Mixed responses came from my heart & my mind. I was clueless & finally I became thoughtless. But all in the end I decided, after having set my prefences & wishes clear, I should leave it for them to decide the best. More of this topic to continue in my next blogs for sure. After all this a major topic relating to me & this cant be ended in few words.
Cheers
Bhola